I am finally home with waggaclint's 14" 185/70s and I'm after some advice for fitting them. I'm completely new to this stuff so no response will be thought too obvious

My 84 sportswagon came with stock 155/55 13s, and is currently running 175/75 13s. These come in at 590mm or 23.2". The new wheel/tyres are 614.6mm or 24.2" so i need almost exactly half an inch each side.
Phizinza's site suggests an EA81 (80-84 wagon like mine) can fit up to 25" with no lift and no fender trimming. Not sure how those figures came about, but i presume it has to do with working the suspension a bit.
With my stock suspension, with mudflaps on, I can get about 135 degrees of steering wheel turn from vertical (power steering) before they hit (eg 135 deg right turn hits right edge of right wheel on flap).
The rear tyres look fine. The fronts rub with the mudflap on and just miss without it, on flat ground, unladen, half-lock.
Rears: 63mm (2.5") rear gap, 42mm (1.75") front gap.
Front: 40mm (1.5") rear gap, 51mm (2") front gap.
With the old wheels, on the front there was about 70mm (2.75") both gaps. Not sure how I lost .75" in front but 1.25" behind, but it could be a bit out because i measured with only the RHS wheel as larger (LHS had old).
On full lock there's enough room, but at half lock right there's only 6mm from the guard to the right edge of the right tyre.
I've always been aware that Subys could have their ride height adjusted by some bolts, but had never investigated it. I had a reasonable flick through the forums - the only info was more related to bigger tyres (26" +) and usually involved cars with 2"+ lift installed. Most people just suggested new suspension (usually kybs/kings).
The Gregory's manual provides information about the adjustment bolts for the front and rear, but to be honest they make it sound more like brain surgery than just carefully measuring and turning these bolts. Apparently i have the potential to wreak havoc on my wheel alignments, and I don't know much about camber/caster/toe in-out etc etc.
I've found the bits it points out on my car, as in pics here
So.. what do i do with them

I presume I could get the height i'm after, though I guess that depends on exactly where they're sitting at the moment. The manual suggests EA81 ride height has 20mm of adjustment in the rear and 30mm of adjustment in the front. I've checked the current ride height:
rear - 335mm (spec 335 - 355)
front - about 262mm (spec 250 - 280)
Can I adjust these nuts to get the height I'm after and then take the car to an alignment place to get them to fix the rest, given the new height? Will an alignment place know what to do? I took the car to beaurepairs recently and asked for an all round alignment and balance, and when i picked the car up the receipt said 'electronic balance x 2, passenger side nudge x 1' .. all that says to a layman like me is that he didn't do what I asked for. I would have asked him to explain about the process if he'd been nice, but he was a gruff bloke and I decided i'd take my business elsewhere next time and try asking the next mob.
On a related note.. slightly different question: For various reasons i'm currently running 3 sizes of tyre.
I *did* have 175/75 on each front, and a 165/75 and 175/70 which are almost the same diameter, on the back.
When i got the car back from the alignment.. the dude had switched the backs for fronts..
Did he look at the sizes? i put the odd ones on the back because they freewheel... Now i have odd ones on the front.. (which will definitely be at least minimally different in diameter) am i about to screw up my driveshaft / cvs ? I *think* the bloke just didn't look... Please tell me he didn't swap them for a reason, so I can swap them back to something i figure is at least mostly safer for the car. the tyres have (as expected) uneven wear patterns but i don't know if that's from before the swap or after. I didn't think to check immediately, so the car has done 1500km on odd front tyres.
Thanks for any advice. sorry for the long post, it helped me to get my own research in one place..
Dave